Hey guys, I’m really sorry I have been a little absent of late. 2016 Has been my annus horribilis! After a very long illness my beloved mother lost her fight for life on 22 November 2016. It was a blessed release.
I am thankful for the time I had with mum, I am grateful that I was lucky enough to have been her daughter and I will hold her in my heart forever.
I will honour her by living my life to the full and making 2017 my ‘optimus anno aeternum’ or ‘Best Year Ever’.
I hope you will join me as the blog picks up momentum again. I have lots planned, just need to get my head sorted over the festive period and get some rest so that I can hit the ground running come January.
Have fun and look out for each other.
Patricia – The Dressage Tipster
I am privileged to have connected to many equestrians throughout the time I have been blogging not least some fellow bloggers who have amazing talent to share with you. Check out these entertaining and informative equestrian blogs that I highly recommend. Continue reading 5 Equestrian Blogs I Highly Recommend
“This book has completely recharged and refocused me. It is simply brilliant. I now know for sure that we can do it! It took a while to get into the mind-set needed; it all seemed a little overwhelming, too much knowledge and not enough skill, I guess! But with the help of this book we are achieving little victories every single session. I am smiling and grinning all over the place.
As Patricia says ‘It’s an exciting and rewarding journey’ and it really is.”
Continue reading The Gift of Dressage Inspiration
The Real Life Rider Series
From our video coaching service we received the following question.
“Can you see if you can pinpoint why I struggle to keep my hands relatively still?”
This is a really common problem where a rider will recognise this problem and concentrate on trying to keep the hands still, believing that somewhere in the arms and hands lies the problem. Fact is that the issue is coming from the centre of the body and is nothing to do with the extremities. Simply put the rider’s ‘centre of balance’ is off.
From the video provided by the rider she had a slightly forward positioning of her upper body, throughout her ride. Her horse was naturally built uphill but even so, he was finding it difficult to engage his hindquarters as well as he might due to the riders balance issues.
The first thing we noticed was that for the majority of the ride the riders toes were pointing down, and her hands as she rightly pointed out ‘moved too much’. Her horse was ‘on the forehand’. Now there’s ‘on the forehand’ and there’s ‘on the forehand’. This horse was not dragging himself around with the front legs, but he is technically ‘on the forehand’ because, firstly the rider had explained that she feels he is too much in her hand most of the time and secondly we could see from the video that the horse was trailing out behind with too much weight on the shoulder. He should ‘sit’ more.
What to do to keep the hands still?
Continue reading Hands Still Moving – Help Me
Quite why I am unable to recreate all the good work I do when my coach is standing in the middle of the manege has always been a bit of a mystery to me. It is a sad fact that I rarely put in as much physical effort when schooling alone and it is the encouragement of my trainer that tends to galvanise my resilience and fortitude, but instructor dependence can be soul destroying.
It seems that those riders that do not have an issue with this have trained their brain to retain the instruction and have a mind-set that creates a hugely powerful incentive to adopt certain behaviours or choices that are critical to training success. No matter what has gone on in their day they have the determination to put everything aside for the ride.
But how do you retain that instruction?
Continue reading 8 Tips To Help Your Brain Retain Instruction
Developing a clear, non-verbal language with your horse means making a connection and this is where your dressage journey begins. Without a useful contact, as a dressage rider you will be unable to communicate with your horse; you will be unable to ‘engage in any type of conversation’ or convey any message effectively. It’s a really widespread problem.
Establishing the contact, maintaining a contact, making a connection, being above the bit, getting behind the bit, head tilting, head wobbling/shaking, strong contact, soft contact; there are a myriad of issues, so for those of you that need help let’s explore a little further.
What Do I Mean by Useful Contact?
Continue reading Make Contact, BUT Make It Useful
There I was, stood looking at the results board, whilst she grinned from ear to ear, chattering away with her entourage, she had every right to be celebrating her victory … again!!!
I don’t really know her well, just know her name really from being at the top of the leader board and I may have taken a peek at her facebook page, so I didn’t have to celebrate with her, a mumbled ‘well done’ with a touch on the arm was sufficient. Turning away with a heavy sigh, I could feel the weight of defeat heavy against my chest. It had happened again, just like before, I bombed out! There has to be a silver lining in it all, right?
If I was going to fail at every competition, then it was time to stop and take a moment to celebrate the small wins. Not the red rosette, the 70%+ score, or the Regional Qualification, no. Instead, I’m talking about celebrating the small stuff; the little things that most brush off as no big deal or not good enough, particularly when the goal is to be competitive. I’m talking about actively looking for the wins and celebrating them. Here are some small win examples from my last outing: Continue reading Celebrate the Small Wins
Absolutely, no surprise to me that Style Reins picked up on these fabulous stylish original cards from wotmalike.
Jo sent me x 6 Dressage Diva greeting cards to give away to my amazing Dressage Tipster fans via facebook.
Continue reading wotmalike – dressage diva – GIVEAWAY
Here’s the thing – You simply cannot pull your horse up off the forehand, so if you have a horse that pulls down on your hands, barely uses his hind legs let alone pushes from them, is heavy, hard to manoeuvre and thoroughly unpleasant to ride; if you feel like your horse would fall on his face if you were to release the contact … then you have a horse that is on the forehand. Continue reading On The Forehand
I know that there are two sides to every story and whilst I have very clear, definitive views of my own, I am able to empathise with other viewpoints and put myself in other people’s shoes. I will always listen to a reasoned arguments. Continue reading The Way We Think About Dressage Is Depressing